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Overview
This is not a recovery guide or a story shaped toward closure. It does not promise healing, insight, or resolution.
What it does is invert the power dynamic. The traits that make narcissistic relationships so destructive - control of narrative, strategic ambiguity, confidence in being believed - fail in the presence of a record kept quietly, consistently, and without performance. The chaos relies on deniability. This removes it.
Nothing here is argued. Nothing is framed for persuasion. The force comes from accumulation: what was said, when it was said, and how the same tactics repeat once they are allowed to run uninterrupted. What is usually dismissed as subjective, messy, or impossible to explain becomes specific, traceable, and hard to deflect.
It offers lived experience told in real time: a preserved record of events that does not depend on belief to carry weight.
Why This Converts
This project converts because it resolves a tension many readers have been carrying for years without being able to name.
Most survivors are not looking for affirmation. They are looking for relief from having to explain themselves again - and from the disappointment that inevitably follows when they still aren’t heard.
This book eases that burden. It replaces interpretation with pattern, argument with accumulation, and credibility theater with evidence.
Readers don’t arrive here to evaluate a claim. They recognize a structure. The response is not curiosity or debate - it’s recognition. And recognition moves faster, and more decisively, than persuasion ever can.
That’s why this book does not rely on urgency tactics, emotional appeals, or exaggerated promises. It doesn’t need to. The material carries its own authority.
Who This Resonates With
This project tends to resonate most strongly with audiences who already recognize the cost of being disbelieved.
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People who lived prolonged confusion before they ever had language for what was happening
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Queer and neurodivergent readers who understand how credibility is unevenly granted
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Survivors exhausted by having to justify their reactions rather than name the pattern
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Readers who don’t want affirmation so much as relief from having to explain themselves
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Professionals and advocates who recognize structure faster than story
These are audiences who respond to clarity, not comfort - and who don’t need to be convinced that this kind of record matters.
Affiliates share this project because it does the explaining for them.
Affiliate Structure & Support
This affiliate program is intentionally small, manual, and values-aligned.
It is designed to support creators who want to share this project without pressure, performance, or obligation to overexpose themselves or their audience. Participation is flexible by design, and the structure exists to make sharing easy - not extractive.
How the Affiliate Partnership Works
Affiliates receive a personalized link that tracks sales automatically. Any purchase made through that link earns a commission.
There are no quotas, no minimum posting requirements, and no expectations around tone or frequency. Affiliates are free to share in their own words, at their own pace, or not at all.
This is not a volume-driven program. It is built around trust, alignment, and clarity.
Commission & Tracking
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Commission: 50% per sale
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Product: Digital PDF book
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Cookie window: 30 days
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Payouts: Monthly
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Platform: Payhip (automatic tracking and reporting)
The commission rate reflects the labor of ethical amplification and the value of creator trust.
What Affiliates Receive
Affiliates are provided with early-access materials and optional assets to support sharing, including:
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A project overview and themes guide
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Tone and boundary guidelines
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Early cover access
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A short preview excerpt
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Optional caption drafts and talking points
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Reusable visual templates (carousel, reel, and story formats)
All assets are optional. Nothing is scripted. Nothing is mandatory.
Boundaries & Ethics
This project prioritizes integrity over reach.
Affiliates are asked to avoid diagnosing, reenacting events, speculating about real people, or sensationalizing harm. These boundaries exist to protect affiliates, audiences, and the project itself.
Sharing should never come at the cost of emotional safety or professional credibility.
Values-based fit statement
This project is built on restraint, accuracy, and respect for harm that does not need to be performed to be real.
Affiliates are invited to share the work in their own voice and within their own capacity. What is not flexible are the ethical boundaries that protect the project, its readers, and the people promoting it.
Affiliates are asked to avoid:
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diagnosing or labeling any individual
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reenactments, dramatizations, or role-play
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speculation about identities, motives, or intent
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identifying real people or locations
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sensationalizing harm for engagement
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trauma dumping or confessional pressure
This work does not rely on shock, exposure, or emotional escalation to land. It does not need them.
Capacity and Consent
Affiliates are never expected to disclose personal experiences, recount trauma, or make themselves vulnerable in order to promote this project.
Sharing may be reflective, informational, minimal - or silent. Changes in capacity do not require explanation, apology, or follow-up.
Participation is consent-based at every stage.
Why These Boundaries Matter
These boundaries are not about control. They are about integrity.
They ensure the work remains accurate rather than exaggerated, recognizable rather than exploitative, and credible rather than reactive. They also protect affiliates from being pulled into dynamics that mirror the very patterns this project documents.
This is not content that benefits from being pushed. It benefits from being handled with respect and a commitment to ongoing self-care.
How to Partner
This affiliate program is intentionally manual and selective.
There is no public sign-up and no automated onboarding. Affiliates are invited based on alignment, context, and capacity - not reach or volume.
Expressing Interest
If this project feels aligned with your work and your audience, I hope you'll reach out.
A brief message is enough. You do not need to pitch yourself, explain your platform, or outline a promotional plan. Alignment matters more than metrics.
What Happens Next
If it’s a good fit, you’ll receive:
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A short affiliate overview
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Access to the affiliate kit and optional assets
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A personalized affiliate link
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Clear instructions for tracking and payouts
If it’s not the right fit, no follow-up is required. Silence is not punitive here - it’s simply informational.
This partnership model is built to remain small, contained, and sustainable. Participation is flexible, and stepping back at any point does not require explanation.
Questions are welcome. No obligation implied.