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Brightly colored collage photo of seven diverse, neurodivergent and queer humans. This image represents the diversity of our neurodiverse community and serves as the lead image on the Autistic Elle Blog Page.

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Abstract painting of two faces merging, symbolizing queer relationship roles and the tension between intimacy and imposed scripts.

Abstract painting of two faces merging, symbolizing queer relationship roles and the tension between intimacy and imposed scripts.

When Queer Relationship Roles Wear Straight Clothes

Oct 146 min read

A neuroqueer person wearing sunglasses and a rainbow scarf, smiling widely at a vibrant pride event. A rainbow flag waves in the background.

A neuroqueer person wearing sunglasses and a rainbow scarf, smiling widely at a vibrant pride event. A rainbow flag waves in the background.

Neuroqueer History: Where the Word Came From and Why It Matters

Aug 225 min read

Neuroqueer person with short white hair and glasses resting chin on hand, wearing a black hoodie. Neutral expression, gray background.

Neuroqueer person with short white hair and glasses resting chin on hand, wearing a black hoodie. Neutral expression, gray background.

Identity-First Language - Autism: Words That Hold Us

Aug 194 min read

A neuroqueer group of eight friends smiling and hugging outdoors, wearing colorful clothes. Lush, green trees form the background, conveying joy.

A neuroqueer group of eight friends smiling and hugging outdoors, wearing colorful clothes. Lush, green trees form the background, conveying joy.

Neuroqueer Meaning: More than Just a Word

Aug 154 min read

Neuroqueer person with red hair, wearing a mustard beanie and denim jacket, leans on a window sill. Background has blurred lights, creating a cozy mood.

Neuroqueer person with red hair, wearing a mustard beanie and denim jacket, leans on a window sill. Background has blurred lights, creating a cozy mood.

What Gender Identity Can Feel Like When You’re Neuroqueer

Aug 74 min read

Neuroqueer couple in autumn attire laugh together, surrounded by blurred yellow foliage. One wears a gray hat, the other an orange one.

Neuroqueer couple in autumn attire laugh together, surrounded by blurred yellow foliage. One wears a gray hat, the other an orange one.

Autistic Love: Built for Depth, Not Scripts

Jul 184 min read

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